“Quality is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives.” --William A. Foster
Quality is a common theme in My "vanilla" and fetish worlds. Quality of life, time, creation and relationships.
The great Anthony Robbins says, ”The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the quality of your relationships.”
If quality excites and fulfills you, W/we march to the beat of the same drum.
Time is of the essence, precious and limited. It should be robust and overflowing with quality moments.
This is why I'm extremely selective when choosing play partners. I meticulously review My request forms. I dismiss most of what comes through.
My strict protocol purposely sifts out clowns, buffoons and fans of what I like to call, “McDomination.”
Where is the attention to detail, communication, creation?
Such scenes are NOT worthy of MY consideration.
“R-E-S-P-E-C-T. . .Know What it Means to Me.” --Aretha Franklin/Mistress Lila
Connection. . .a harmonious dance, gliding along a rhythm, a vibration, a magnetic force, uniting one another.
This starts with the first email.
I follow a traditional Domina philosophy--especially regarding correspondence. Read My Protocol. If you can't follow My Protocol before a Session, you will fail miserably as My sub. Attention to detail counts.
The true symmetry between a Pro Domme and sub is built upon a foundation of commonality, trust, respect, and vulnerability. you share a side of yourself you can't reveal to others. We/we pull back the layers to delve into your submissive urges and shape your own custom, judgment-free, play space. Here, open communication is key to the most genuine power exchange and a growing D/s bond.
I welcome newcomers who show RESPECT from the onset. I welcome your curiosity and willingness to explore your sub-self. I'm honored to Session with first-timers and cultivate Our/our relationship over time.
I only accept TRUE subs. fetishists, sissies, slaves and masochists are also welcome. all MUST BE warm-hearted, POLITE, thankful, thoughtful, and gracious. you are all heart, giving of yourself and pliant to My Power. Understand, when you walk through My door, it is MY time. I own your mind, body and soul.
“The Power is Mind.”--Lords of Acid/Mistress Lila
We/we feverishly await playtime as children. Our/our frenzied feet raced to a friend's house, after school activities or flip-flopped through lazy summer days.
The backdrops may vary: The echoing pavement of a playground; the grassy scent of an earthy backyard; the enveloping warmth of a sandy beach or a fluffy, snow-packed hill.
Our/our imaginations abound. It excitedly flourished Our/our little souls. Through play, We/we learn self-awareness. We/we engage with others and expand Our/our understanding.
Then somehow, in the mix, play and imagination are lost. Adults teach Us/us shame, stifle creativity or tell Us/us imagination is foolish.
Add in the strained burden of adult responsibilities and limited time. Our/our once lush spirits become cotton-mouthed, leaving Us/us thirsty for imagination, creativity and a refreshed self-awareness.
BDSM play varies greatly from childhood play although the concepts of imagination, creation and self-awareness are parallel (even if the topics are drastically different).
My Reiki background sharpens My acute inner sense, intuition and guide that tunes in and connects to you.
This synchronization conducts a concert, leads you to the crescendo and auto-pilots you into a tempoed, pulsing beat. your floaty, feathery sub-place where time stands still. those who I welcome with open arms, into My world, match this philosophy. Sessions are joyous, freeing, blissful, spellbinding and often life-changing.